Wednesday, January 28, 2015

January Sunday Reflections

4 January 2015


Isaiah 60:1-6 Society's centre becoming a place of hope

The post-exile prophet, who built on the inspiration of the first Isaiah three centuries before, pictures what would have seemed as unbelievable then as now: that the cultural centre and power centre, Jerusalem in their case, could be a place of genuine hope. Jerusalem has been decimated by other nations. Political divisions are sharp, between those wanting to rebuild a self-contained nation, ethnically and culturally pure (Ezra and Nehemiah tell of that), against those who had heard the Isaiah message that their God is God of all creation and their calling is to be light for all the nations. So arguments over politics are at once arguments over faith. Who do we believe is important in God's eyes? What is our vision of “good life”? Is it kingdom life or is it national security and our culture holding sway?
They are downcast. We can feel downcast about the state of our world. Despondent, wondering if hope belongs at all in our lifetime. The prophet says, look up. There are new horizons to be seen. Your God is God for all humanity and not just for the insider group. Therefore, there is a bigger picture in which the transformation of faith involves the transformation of our whole society. Not just our little corner, us living good lives, but God changing the ways of the world through us – and many others.
Our task shining light for all and sundry is to embody God's hope. Through welcoming, including, receiving others as people with gifts to share however strange they (the people and/or the gifts) may seem to us.
Think of it this way: trust God to be at work in all sorts of different people, not obviously “godly” perhaps even sceptical or anti. What we can do as ones who do acknowledge God the giver of life is accept them as genuine contributers to God's kingdom way.
Can you think of recent examples of people you have met, or comments you've heard in the public arena, that have been genuine gifts for making a difference? Contributions, even though small, which need to be affirmed to encourage more “God work” in our wider society.
To be a light in everyday terms mean highlighting the hopeful and therefore helping keep despondency from taking over.
Matthew 2:1-12 These travellers: what drove them to journey?
Put yourself in the place of the travellers in the story here.  What must have been their thoughts, their hopes, their fears as they began this incredible journey? As they ended it?
Have you ever known yourself called on such a pilgrimage? What was its outcome?  How were you changed?
What compelled these travellers to take the journey in the first place? To risk fortunes and reputations, be nearly thwarted, and their lives threatened, by a paranoid ruler. We can imagine they had dreams and nightmares about it for the rest of their lives.
So what stirred in them to drive them to risk so much? What deep yearning was it?
What they were doing was in fact living their life's work to its natural conclusion, their life's work as scholars of the stars. It was probably not what they signed up for at the start, to go on a journey such as this. But they did it. They let their calling lead them beyond imaginings.
Our first calling is simply to be who we were made to be. Then we are to keep eyes and ears and hearts open to where our calling happens to lead us.
So this story is not just for entertainment, a nice tale about some wise men and a baby. In addition to this underlying message of following our calling, the story has two key things for us to note.
First these people are from the East. The good news is for all people regardless of origins or nationality. The message of post-exile Isaiah has to be repeated again and again, because human nature forgets and we revert to concern for well-being and blessing for our own group. Epiphany – the name for this event in the church calendar, meaning manifesting or bringing to light spiritual reality – declares an end to the idea of national or exclusive gods. As with the Canaanites' Baal, or YHWH “the Lord” when seen as exclusive to the chosen people, or the god of thoughtless patriotism, the god of cultural superiority, the god of accumulated wealth, the god of ability and success.
The good news of our God is for all humanity, indeed all the cosmos. If some are described as “others” it doesn't work as good news. And especially if it doesn't work for the least, then it isn't good news.
Secondly, these people are star-gazers. Star trekkers, barrier breakers. Going where no-one would sensibly set off and go.
Can we follow so determinedly the leads that we sense the spirit giving us? Can we follow and also break barriers as we go where we are lead by the Star, by the Spirit, by the serendipity of new insights?

The Story of the Other Wise Man by Henry Van Dyke

The story is an addition and expansion of the account of the Biblical Magi, recounted in the Gospel of Matthew in the New Testament.  It tells about a "fourth" wise man (assuming the tradition that the Magi numbered three to be true), a priest of the Magi named Artaban. Like the other Magi, he sees signs in the heavens proclaiming that a King had been born among the Jews. Like them, he sets out to see the newborn ruler, carrying treasures to give as gifts to the child - a sapphire, a ruby, and a pearl of great price. However, he stops along the way to help a dying man, which makes him late to meet with the caravan of the other three wise men. Since he missed the caravan, and he can't cross the desert with only a horse, he is forced to sell one of his treasures in order to buy the camels and supplies necessary for the trip. He then commences his journey but arrives in Bethlehem too late to see the child, whose parents have fled to Egypt. He saves the life of a child at the price of another of his treasures. He then travels to Egypt and to many other countries, searching for Jesus for many years and performing acts of charity along the way. After thirty-three years, Artaban is still a pilgrim, and a seeker after light. Artaban arrives in Jerusalem just in time for the crucifixion of Jesus. He spends his last treasure, the pearl, to ransom a young woman from being sold into slavery. He is then struck in the temple by a falling roof tile and is about to die, having failed in his quest to find Jesus, but having done much good through charitable works. A voice tells him "Verily I say unto thee, Inasmuch as thou hast done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, thou hast done it unto me."(Matthew 25:40) He dies in a calm radiance of wonder and joy. His treasures were accepted, and the Other Wise Man found his King.

11 January 2015


Washed in the Holy Spirit

Jewish mystic, the Baal Shem Tov, who compared atheists to "a deaf man who for the first time comes upon a violinist playing in the town square while the townspeople, moved by the lilt and rhythm of his playing, dance in joy. Unable to hear the music, he concludes they are all mad".

Genesis 1:1-5

Mark 1:4-11

Did Jesus need to repent? Unless the gesture is an empty one, apparently he did. John had been announcing a coming new order; his baptism prepared people for new ways of living and behaving. Jesus is the focus of that new order. His baptism was a sign of renouncing the old order. His act of repentance signaled a break with the structures and values in society by which people are oppressed, and with the prevailing moral, religious, and political order.
Peter B Price, Sojourners
Baptism in the Holy Spirit: a topic to get reactions surely.
But let's look at it in terms of what the Bible talks about.
Baptise means simply wash. John the Washer was renowned for washing people in the Jordan River. And he did it as a sign of turning back to the good and the true and washing away all that goes against it.
John was helping people to wash away the old ways of living and behaving. With that done,in principle a person could become who they were meant to be.
Now for Jesus, what follows is a voice that names the person he is meant to be, the person he is. And then a third step: the heavens part. Now we're really into the new stuff.
At the River Jordan, if anything is going to be parted, it's the idea of the waters parting that would first come to mind. Go back to the beginning, as in our first reading, and the parting of the waters from the land is fundamental to life getting under way. When matter meets spirit, when the formless void feels the wind of the creator spirit, creation begins.
Then there was the parting of the waters when Moses strikes the Red Sea with his staff. Escape from Egypt. The beginning of the journey to life with freedom.
Later it's specifically the Jordan, which was sure to have been the biblical connection the crowds who came to John had in mind. Elijah parted the waters when he touched them with his mantle (2 Kings 2) – as did Elisha a few verses later, proof of his receiving his mentor's power. Maybe John is the new Elijah, they think. Maybe he will lead them to the Messiah.
But it is not waters that part in Mark 1, but the heavens. And through the gap, down from the sky, comes a dove. Another water connection? Could well be. Third century bishop Gregory Thaumaturgus saw Jesus here as “the new Noah … the good pilot of nature which is in shipwreck.”
Mmmm. We could do with a good pilot in our context: nature, humanity, and the planet rather like a ship in trouble.
So there's a set of three signs and three phase or steps for us to learn from. The first phase is being washed of old ways and behaviours. But we don't just stop at that, because we realise that getting rid of the old needs also a clear direction for the new. Step two – the second sign for Jesus of the voice naming him beloved – is identity. Naming, getting a sense of who we are and who we are meant to be. Our potential, our gifts, our true nature, in God's eyes. And then step three – the third sign – the guiding spirit brings the new ways and behaviours to live more and more from this time on.
This picture of the heavens parting is a poetic way of imagining the boundary, the liminal space between the physical world we see and touch and what lies deeper – the “more than meets the eye”. It's a thin place where ordinary material reality is touched by spiritual energy. And the dove is the symbol that carries this energy through, so to speak. A symbol of the Spirit, the Holy Spirit as Christian faith names it.
People come to John to be washed clean of the old: Jesus will give them an even more important washing. Soaking them with the Holy Spirit, which powers their new way of living.
An interesting thing about the Holy Spirit in Mark's gospel: we usually think of the Holy Spirit as an event or experience that came at a point later, after Jesus' death; something to receive in one magic moment, on the day of Pentecost in Jerusalem or in the locked room at the end of that day which began with the Empty Tomb. But that's Luke and John respectively and they were written later than Mark.
For Mark the Holy Spirit starts right away. Here at the Baptism.
Jesus is plunged down into the river, eyes and airway closed. He comes up and breathes in the air. In his breath comes the Spirit and it becomes part of him, of how he lives and breathes from now on.
I heard a woman speak about going back to her home in Pines Beach: it had been filled with smoke and it was going to be a while before they got rid of the smell. I also read about experiences in South Australia. The smoke of a bush fire, something intangible, you can't quite grasp it, but it gets into every part of us, making our eyes run, seeping into the houses of our lives even though we shut the doors and windows. (Andrew Prior) It's like something was in the air.
The Holy Spirit is like that. Something's in the air. From this point on in Mark, the Holy Spirit is with Jesus and in Jesus, and it soaks in and around those he meets.
It's his ministry of God's good news that does it. That's baptising in the Spirit. He visits the sick and lifts people up. He sits and eats with those who are poor and different and ostracised. He helps heal them by loving and accepting them. He helps those who are bogged down and gets them moving again. He feeds with bread and with words of freedom and love. He gives himself, and so helps restore people to life.
Being baptised in the Holy Spirit is being immersed in this way of living and being.
It is something we can do. Simply by loving and accepting people as best we can, the Holy Spirit's power is there with us. By definition you might say.
Being out in the Spirit smoke also helps. That is, going back again and again to the stories of Jesus and letting them give direction to our own stories.
Being out in the smoke by being where Jesus is.  

18 January 2015 


Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening

In the background is a text from 1 Samuel. Chapter 3 is the story of the little boy Samuel, who hears a voice in the night calling him, thinks it's Eli the priest, but in fact it is God. God-who-calls-us.
God is still speaking, although it hadn't seemed like that. Things were in a mess. Eli's sons were a disgrace to their family profession of priesthood and Eli was doing nothing about it, which was also part of the disgrace. But he was raising the boy Samuel, who had been dedicated to the temple by his mother Hannah, following the miracle of his conception after so long waiting.
Eli's faith and perception are a mixed bag. He assumed Hannah was drunk when she was praying with such heart and soul, longing for a child. He knows immediately that the voice Samuel hears is the Lord's and guides him wisely in how to respond.
Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.”
So it's likely not that the voice is not speaking, but that it is not being heard in the midst of the noise of what we think is real life.
Now an interesting thing about biblical language, Hebrew, and the Aramaic that was behind the Greek words used in the New Testament is this: words like “hear” and “see” carry an extra dimension from how western culture language usually understands them.
When you hear, you don't just hear and think about it. To hear means to act in response. That's when the word “obey” fits better than just “hear”.
When you see, you don't just see and stay a spectator, interested or otherwise. To see means to follow up on what you see. To do something in response.
With that in mind, listen for what you hear in the gospel reading. And what people see.

John 1:43-51

The Bible is better read meditatively than doctrinally. Gaze, be drawn in, and, once in, look, listen, feel. Not inspect for beliefs and directives set out in it, as if it were a rule book.
Be present to it. And therefore present to the Presence it evokes.
The Christian life is the practice of becoming conscious of this at the heart of living. Again and again becoming aware of living and breathing a presence that is more than ourselves or the things around us. This awareness is to be part of everything we do, but that can be hard when we're up to our ears in doing. So it helps to practise.
Reading scripture is a way to to practise this practice, as we ponder what we hear and see, in a Hebrew sense of those words. What does our hearing and sight trigger us to do in response?
Being found by Jesus (and remember Psalm 139, about the Presence who finds us and knows us), Philip responds to these words “follow me” that he hears. He goes and finds another person and tells him about Jesus. Nathaniel hears what's said and responds with cynicism. Now he doesn't just think it, as the Western approach to language gives a space to do – you can hear and not do anything. He speaks it. Response. And Philip hears and responds to that: “Come and see”.
There's a wonderful line in the text from 1 Samuel. God will speak a new thing, at which “the two ears of everyone that hears it will tingle” (1 Samuel 3:11).
Ears tingle, eyes brighten up: that's what is happening as each person is captivated by what they see and what they hear. The words spoken – the Word – is something almost physical, picking people up and drawing them in to the fold of new disciples. An indication of the physicality of words for ancient Semitic peoples is their habit of ducking when a curse was sent their way. Again we see this different understanding of what it means to speak and hear, to look and see. It engages us. Or it can engage us if we let ourselves be drawn into the connectedness of how human living really is. Let go our Western culture's separate unit idea and let ourselves be affected by what we see and hear. And do something in response.
Every time the lectionary pops in on John's gospel we need to remember that the author of this book was a mystic, with a purpose of drawing us in to the mystery of Christ. What it's about whenever we read a passage from John is nothing I can lay out in plain language for you. It's not theory like that. It's experience. And in the experience we learn. We discover things about ourselves, who we are and who we are called to be – our theme through Epiphany. What life, what way of living, is this relationship with Jesus leading me into?
It depends who we are, and it depends what comes to light when we tune in to this relationship, connect ourselves back with life as relational. Today's encounter with Nathaniel shows one key quality for Christian living, what kind of person it is important to be. So, if nothing more – though I am sure there is more, in what you are hearing and sensing regarding yourself – let's learn from Nathaniel.
The really important quality is this: Nathaniel is identified as “truly an Israelite in whom there is no deceit.”
Even though being an Israelite means you are a descendant of Israel = Jacob, one of the great deceivers of all time, you are not doomed by your genes. That's one way of reading that, valid and helpful I am sure, for us.
But it's the actual quality that is in primary focus: to be without deceit. This is a very important practice to practise as people who want to be disciples of Christ. True, we don't save ourselves by doing right – the message is, God loves us unconditionally. But we do become better and better disciples by practising the ways of good and right living. And this quality in Nathaniel is at the core:

Love is a choice – not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretence or guile.
Carter Heyward

The Greek word used in the text refers literally to fish bait. To beguile, to deceive, is like trapping another person with fish bait. Fish bait really is treachery. In contrast we need to have integrity and clarity of consciousness, exactly what Psalm 139 encourages and, if you can sit comfortably with that Psalm, then those qualities fit. Not to deceive is to care about others. To be a person of compassion. Christ-like.
Let's use Nathaniel as an example and keep practising the choice to be present to others without pretence or guile.
It needs on-going practice, a life-time's worth.

25 January 2015


Mark 1:14-20         Go Fishing


Two things happen in the reading. Jesus announces the Kingdom and he calls disciples.
Discipleship is intimately connected with the Kingdom.
But what is this “kingdom”? We don't talk about kingdoms now, or even reigns. What word could we use that is relevant to now? Whatever we use, it needs to work as both a noun and a verb, that is, it encompasses a region but also points to what to do. Also it is total, all or nothing, not a choice or an occasional variation from the norm. And it's crunch time: it changes the state of affairs, and that can be good, but it also can be bad – if you're fine with how things stand.
So what could be the equivalent in our time? Kingdom change – what change? One suggestion is “culture”. We don't talk about kingdoms or reigns, but we do talk about culture – the overriding, overruling arena we live in and pattern of our behaviour. Culture enmeshes usand effectively determines our thoughts and actions. We can be completely unconscious of it, thinking it is just the way the world is, but people from outside, from another cultural context, can see its characteristics.
So we live embedded in the culture that surrounds us and controls us to large extent. Jesus comes announcing God's culture, and calling people to join that. To be enmeshed instead in God's ways, to let them determine thoughts and actions.
Cultural tourism is a big thing nowadays: visiting other cultures and getting a taste of their environment and what their people do. It could be a temptation to do that in relation to God's culture, to visit, to dabble even in the Kingdom of God as it's traditionally called. Taking a holiday from regular life, with its pressures and commitments, we could go to this other land and enjoy its atmosphere, appreciate the lives of those who do make it their home, feel while we are there that we could be changed by this, but then go home again to the ways of before.
Thinking we can really get in to God's ways in this limited way is like trying to understanding another people without getting inside their lives; in particular, without learning their language and living in accordance with their practices.
Jesus is saying: don't be a tourist to God's culture. Learn the language, learn the practices, be a disciple.
In this episode from Mark's gospel, the change of culture called for by Jesus is signified by a change of fishing. A bit about fishing in first century Israel/Palestine could help at this point. To fish then was not to operate as a free enterprise individual, or even as a family owned business, within an open market. It was to be part of a complex web of economic relationships, controlled by an elite and by the state. It meant being enmeshed in the imperial culture of the time along with its taxation system.
The first disciples were called out of that, to no longer have their place in that system and no longer be at home in the culture and the economy. Called out of fishing for fish to become enmeshed and at home in God's culture and economy where they would fish for people.
What were they expecting from “God's Kingdom” as Jesus called it? They would know straight away that it involved change and turning around – the word that's been translated into English as “repent”. And good news, which had to be a challenge to the usual “good news” that the Empire culture talked about – Caesar's rule of enforced peace and prosperity if you toe the line and happen to be among the winners.
What's more, fishing had associations in scripture that we don't naturally make. There's Jonah, but that's when a fish did the fishing, or rather the human catching. Jonah didn't want to follow through with what God's culture of justice was asking of him. God's life for all, not just Jonah's own kind. He did not want to speak the hard word that might bring change and therefore make the people right with God, because it was Ninevah and he rated them as a bad lot, full stop. But God's compassion won through in the end: God's justice and God's compassion – the two go together.
And there were prophets who spoke of fish, in particular fish hooks. Here's a powerful image from Amos that has stuck firmly in my mind since we study Amos at Knox:

Amos 4:1-3
Hear this word, you cows of Bashan
   who are on Mount Samaria,
who oppress the poor, who crush the needy,
   who say to their husbands, ‘Bring something to drink!’
The Lord 
God has sworn by his holiness:
   The time is surely coming upon you,
when they shall take you away with hooks,
   even the last of you with fish-hooks.
Through breaches in the wall you shall leave,
   each one straight ahead;
   and you shall be flung out into Harmon,
says the Lord

That's the wealthy, women as signifying the elite among whom women need do no labour, who have what they want, and have it because of injustice inflicted on others.
The hooking of fish refers to judgement on the rich and powerful. That's what those fisherfolk Jesus spoke to would understand. That's what the first readers of Mark's gospel would also be thinking of. Put bluntly, those invited to "fish" will be joining the struggle against the powerful and privileged who oppress the poor and weak. (Peter Price)
So to fish for people is to hook the injustice that is embedded in the culture around us, and open up for people the alternative culture – God's. To be able to be fishers of people involves learning this alternative culture. Apprenticed to the master, believing him – turn around and believe the good news – and therefore able to hear his voice over top of the voice of the dominating culture.
These disciples become a new fishing community, a community which we continue even now.  

Remembering

For down time when it has been a bit hot to be doing much outside, I've been working away on a rather special editing task.
My father wrote letters home during the war. His war was World War 2 and the correspondence begins with a brief stint at Levin in September 1941 and ends with the 17 May 1945 telegram from a contact in Scotland advising the family that Syd was back in England and no longer a POW. Now that's one acronym I grew up with and never had to have explained to me: Prisoner of War.
Over the years, we some stories from the war. Like others, Dad censored what he told us, but he did give us enough of a clue to appreciate his decision to serve and accept those quirks of behaviour and personality that were clearly a result of his experiences. He also could appreciate the views of younger generations, for example, during the Vietnam War. He had huge respect for conscientious objectors during WW2 and for the pacifist voices that continued to be heard. In our conversations on the subject of war and peace, the Christian faith was always at the heart of it, just as it had been in 1942 and through the hard years that followed.
Dad was captured in Italy after having to bail out of the Wellington bomber in which he was the wireless operator. He was recorded missing in action on 19 September 1943 and the first news of him being alive and a prisoner came, in a telegram from the same contact in Scotland on 22 December.
As the editing process was coming close to completion, with photos inserted from his “snaps” plus maps, mementos, and pictures sourced from the web, that internet searching flushed out other resources that have taken my understanding further. In particular a book entitled The Last Escape: The untold story of Allied prisoners of war in Germany 1944-45.1 Dad was part of that story and I found myself making pencil marks at points where things were mentioned that were in his letters. However, much was not in his letters, nor in what he told us. The closest we'd ever got to the horror of it was in our talk around the table during the evening after his funeral. Uncle Keith told us something Syd had relayed to him: how he could not live with himself for one particular moment on the death march he was part of, as they were being forced away from the advancing Allied lines. When there was a person who needed his help but if he helped them he himself would be dead. Perhaps there was more than one moment like that and it went so against his Christian faith.
How that faith surely made a difference to his survival through those years of captivity. And afterwards. The interesting thing is that he doesn't talk about his faith in his letters. It just is: a basic underlying hope.
I'm of a generation and situation that is very fortunate. Not to have had to endure this – that really was what made it worthwhile for Dad and his contemporaries – but also to have had close contact with people who did and to have absorbed something from them. The value of these letters I've been working on, and books like The Last Escape, is in deepening this and in sharing it with others too. My sister-in-law on the farm made sure that Dad's war treasures remained safe; when the time was right she got to work on typing up the correspondence. We're going to be forever grateful to her!
The right time was understandably after Dad had died. That's also when I was in Europe and finally identified the camps he had been in. If only it had been sooner, one might think. But no. We'd love to have been able to talk with him more, given the extra information, but we really had to follow his lead on how much he wanted to say. That has been stark in reading the book about the ordeals of the POWs. It was better he never knew how much we have come to know. He didn't have to suffer it again, by seeing any hint of understanding in our eyes.
In April this year, we reach the milestone of 100 years after the terrible defeat at Gallipoli. In the Whangaroa community we are marking this during the week before ANZAC Day with the “Whangaroa Armed Services Commemorations 2015”. It begins with a combined church service in our church on Sunday 19 April at 2.30pm and the plan includes bus tours around the ūrūpā/cemeteries in the district, a dinner for service personnel and WW1 descendants, displays in the town and in our church facilities, and a family day in our church grounds on the Friday afternoon/evening.
Who will you be remembering as we draw closer and closer to ANZAC 2015? What insights have been handed down to you by those who served – be it overseas or keeping the home fires burning – during all the conflicts that are in the memories of our people?
Rangimarie Peace Shalom
Robyn

1 John Nichol and Tony Rennell, Penguin 2002. 

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Two Ways of Seeing Things

During my week's work I visit two Schools to do “Bible”. Both schools, Kaeo and Riverview, welcome the Bible-in-schools programme. Both are lovely groups of children (age 9-11), bringing occasional challenges to the abilities of this non-teacher, but a real buzz in compensation.
They also teach me. Recently I learned about differences among peoples within our one nation.
At the moment, the Riverview class is using a different book from that used at Kaeo. It means that when the topic of God came up, there was a different entry point. At Riverview, it connected with the theme of creation – the amazing world we live in. At Kaeo, it started with the story of the burning bush.
At Riverview we began by singing Creation Rap, a favourite song for sure. “God made everything. And it was good.” The kids were buzzing with comments, so I got it focussed by gathering up our questions and listing them on the board.
If God made the world, who made God? Where does God live? Wasn't it our parents who made us? What was there before there was anything? Did God make aliens?
These children don't take God as a given. They are of an age and cultural environment that sees God as a question, specifically the question: is there a God and how do you know?
After a brainstorm on the questions, I talked to them about two ways of looking at the world – science and faith, facts and values, evidence and trust. And the key question for each: science asking “how?” and faith asking “why?” Finding cause and effect, in contrast to discovering worth and goodness.
They spent the whole session on the mat, engaged. At the end a number came to me and said “thank you” and “that was really interesting”.
At Kaeo we began with a children's video of Moses and the burning bush. With appropriate drama and special effects we saw a talking bush that didn't burn up and the fun scary bits too – Moses' stick turning into a snake and back again and his hand getting diseased and then healed.
They were totally engrossed. Then totally in tune with the discussion about what the story says God is like. First the tapu that means you take off your shoes – the wow factor that is also a bit fearful, in the sense of being very careful and respectful; next, power that never burns out; then one who hears cries for help, who listens and cares, and who then does something about it (sending Moses); finally one for whom the word “impossible” does not apply.
For the Kaeo children, in their cultural environment, the question “is there a God?” doesn't come up. Same age and yet a different way of relating to the world. The question that interests them is what this God is like that they simply take as part of reality.
The western world's standard mindset is just one way of seeing things. It's not the only way, nor is it the superior way. It's just different.
It's part of what I grew into through education and interaction in a predominantly Pakeha part of New Zealand. And yet, growing up where I did, on a farm and with the Christian faith as a way of being more than a set of beliefs, meant that “what we call God” (as Dad used to say) was just part of reality. Philosophy at university did nothing to undermine that sense of spiritual givenness.
I thank the classes at Riverview and Kaeo for being different from each other and setting out so clearly these two sides. Two sides, two cultures, that are both part of our country. And both part of me.
Rangimarie Peace Shalom

Robyn

Saturday, June 21, 2014

God heard the cry of the child

The big event of this week in NZ was, as I see it, the People's Report of the Glenn Inquiry1 into child abuse and domestic violence. We might appear a peaceful and civilised country, but I think we are all aware of the reality. Not only has our society been built on violent acts in the past, it is maintained by a culture of fear (or its cousin in camouflage anxiety) that has us seeking the security of powerful friends. But even deeper is the absence of peace and well-being in many homes. Too many children and adults think their experience is “normal”. This week the focus in the Bible readings just happens to be fair and square on the way this disease pervade family culture.
Talk “violence” and many of us likely pull back and think, that's not my experience. A majority feeling can pervade, even without us speaking our thoughts, and those who do know it get silenced. By the way, the report speaks of abuse and violence that is physical, sexual, emotional and psychological, and financial. Manipulation and control in many forms. We must not pull back from it, and let issues like Labour party leadership become more important until something else distracts us, because it concerns people among us. It is “us”, not just “them”. Even more so because at root there is a culture, an attitude that I'm not sure any of us can feel free of: the culture of blame. If something is wrong, the mainstream response is to go for the one who is to blame. That, apparently, is how you sort it. Really? Blame, then punish, and it's over?
No, do that and the cycle continues.
Today's Bible readings really can clarify our purpose – two readings about family. In them are human actions and consequences; God's response and God's way of dealing with issues; and the harder way Jesus leads us on to build life not on power and control but on kingdom values. Put bluntly, Jesus condemns the idolatry of family.

Family Conflict: an ancient example – the story in Genesis 21:8-21

In the background is the promise to Abraham that he, with his wife Sarah, will be tupuna for a great nation. They believe the promise but they are old, and Sarah has not been blessed with a child. So Sarah understandably thinks this is a situation to take initiative and arranges for a surrogate child by her maid, Hagar. Her son, Ishmael, grows strong and Sarah and Hagar's formerly close relationship is disturbed, as happens – you can't really blame anyone. Then Sarah herself carries a child to term and Isaac is born.
Trouble escalates. What if Hagar's son takes precedence as Abraham's first born? This must not happen, thinks Sarah, for God's promise is to her and Abraham. She has to do something (initiative again) to help keep things on track. So she asks Abraham to send Hagar and the child away, effectively a death sentence to be shut off from community support.
For Abraham it was no trouble to have both sons and both women in his life, but Sarah is his official wife, so he must do as she asks. He supplies Hagar with food and water and sends her into the wilderness.
When the water runs out, Hagar cannot bear to see her child suffer. She leaves him under a bush and sits down a distance away from him where “she lifts up her voice and weeps”.
God hears the boy's crying and sends a messenger to Hagar who tells her that God has heard the boy “where he is” – right there in worst suffering. She is to raise him with care, for through him also Abraham will be tupuna of a great nation. When she opens her eyes, she sees a spring: their life continues. As the text says: “God was with the boy...”
We say family is the basis of society. The wisdom of the Tanakh, which we so foolishly call the Old Testament, tells us that family is where violence and blame begin... Adam blames Eve. Cain kills Abel. And Lamech takes the violence further.... (Genesis 4:19-24) The violence escalates.
Andrew Prior, http://harestreetunitingchurch.org.au/the-work-of-easter-is-begun---matthew-10-24-39.html
Abraham's family is a continuation of this. The disharmony that had come into family life with the birth of one son and then of the second son was to be sorted by punishing the cause of the problem. If Hagar hadn't been so confident, blossoming in the role of motherhood, if she'd kept her place as a household slave, then there wouldn't have been a problem. She's to blame; send her away.
Abraham buys into that: he knows no option. Keep the peace of the family, keep the honour of the family, and don't show any weakness that will make the household vulnerable to others.
So much manipulation, control tactics, and bullying happens in the cause of keeping the peace. Focus on who's to blame; find a scapegoat for the problem and work from that. What we do next probably depends on our personality type: confront or withdraw, challenge or pacify, all to deal to the so-called “problem person” but ignoring the real sickness – the relationship between the people.

Not peace but a sword

In the Gospel reading for today we hear these challenging words from Jesus:
Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.
For I have come to set a man against his father,
and a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household. 
Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it. (Matthew 10:34-39)  
Eugene Peterson begins verse 34 of Matthew 10: “Don't think I've come to make life cozy.” Brokenness in relationships cannot be fixed by making things comfortable and nice. Like a broken leg, what's needed first is traction – pulling it apart. Jesus is speaking this hard truth about relationships, starting at the core in family relationships. And he is showing us how to do it.
In conventional terms, Jesus' society was held together by the dynamics of family honour and shame. In many ways that is still the same for us. “Family values”, “family first”, as a society we come close to treating family as our ultimate concern, our god. Jesus is saying, no, that's not the real ultimate concern. God is, and to be on track with that we need to commit to Jesus. What really holds life together is the way he shows us – the way of the cross.
Andrew Prior proposes an extra verse for our first song:
When the crowds at the cross have gone home
When the stone is rolled from the tomb
When the Lord has come among you and you have seen his wounds
The work of Easter is begun.
Prior continues:
Jesus' refusal to reply to our violence with violence, but replying with forgiveness, is the decisive breaking of such cycles. It is the work of Easter. Look again at the words in that song.
To find the lonely and the lost,
To heal their brokens soul with love,
To feed the hungry children with warmth and good food,
To feel the earth below the sky above!
To free the prisoner from all chains,
To make the powerful care,
To rebuild the nations with strength and goodwill,
To be at one with people everywhere.
Andrew Prior, http://harestreetunitingchurch.org.au/the-work-of-easter-is-begun---matthew-10-24-39.html
Section 2 of the People's Report, on what is working well in our country's government and non-government systems, documents things that fit well with these two verses, for example:
genuine, non-judgmental people
helpful services
agencies collaborating
teachers alert to troubled children and believing them
victim-focussed police response
There is so much power in just being heard, listened to, believed, and not judged.”2 There is so much damage in labelling, acting on assumptions, and overall ignorance of the nature and impact of child abuse and domestic violence.
The section on what is not working is much longer but ideas for change that follow give good direction. The way forward is whole system, whole country, change. All of us seeing things differently, all of us leaving behind the impulse to blame. To break the cycle of abuse, and at all times for us to break the cycle of troubled relationships, we need to break the habit of making blame and punishment the solution.
For us as Christians we have the pattern to follow to do this – the Light of the World. Remember Jesus' key word forgiveness. It is the perfect antidote to the blame impulse, which is my strongest argument for keeping working on it.
For the goal is well-being. The way forward to that is healing, not condemnation.

1https://glenninquiry.org.nz/the-peoples-report

2The People's Report, p.110