Saturday, June 6, 2015

Learn to Weep

I'd like to share someone else's words as much as any of my own.
When I think about what's on our minds just now, the big things in the world and in our own country, I really haven't got the words. I don't know. I can't see easy pointers to where the Spirit of God, where the wisdom of God, could be guiding us.
I think of the importance of history and not mistakenly believing that we do things better now. The complexities that in retrospect we can see in conflicts of the past – the triggers of the First World War, the experience of Vietnam, the 1980s war in Afghanistan (just some examples), help us realise that today's context also is no black and white matter. Can today's world leaders learn from the past?
I also think about fear, and the way fear can take over and become the main factor in decision-making. It can make us forget what really matters.
Do I fear for our world, for the planet and for the peoples of the world? Do I fear for our country and its social fabric?
Yes, I do. But what am I to do with that fear and still stay true to our top purpose as people of faith: to “love one another as I have loved you.”1
Here's what Mary Luti of the United Church of Christ in USA has written recently2.
Learn to Weep
When Jesus saw her weeping, and those with her also weeping, he was greatly disturbed in spirit and deeply moved… and Jesus began to weep.
John 11:33-35
A little girl asked him why God lets children suffer — asked Pope Francis, that is, in Manila last January. "Terrible things happen to children," she told him through tears. "It’s not their fault. Why does God permit it?"
It was an entirely unscripted question. So was his answer.
He didn’t correct her theology or otherwise attempt to pacify Glyzelle Palomar who, in front of a million people, had just told him that she scrounged food from garbage and slept outside on a cardboard mat.
Here’s what he did. He enfolded the sobbing child in his arms. Then he admonished everyone to pay close attention because he said, "She has just asked the one question with no answer." To her he said, "Only when we are able to weep about the things you have lived will we understand anything and be able to answer you." 
Then he taught the crowd, "The world needs to weep. The marginalized weep, the scorned weep, but we who are more or less without needs, we don't know how. We must learn. There are realities in this life you can see only with eyes cleansed and clarified by tears.... If you don't learn to weep, you're not a good Christian!" 
Whenever we’re asked the question with no answer, "Our answer must first be silence, and then a word born of tears."
Prayer 
Give us tears, O God, so that we may see; and seeing, join each other in suffering; and in joining, be moved to love in deed.
To Mary's thoughts I add just this:
Rangimarie Peace Shalom,
Robyn
Pope Francis hugs Glyzelle Palomar at a youth rally in Manila 18 January 2015


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